Friday, January 2, 2009

Well, if this isn't a hell of a way to ring in the new year....

Last night we found out that Shaye and Laela's birthmom is pregnant. Due in May. Oh, and so is their 16 year old biological sister. Due in July.

I'm speechless and angry and sad all at the same time. Just when I have found the strength to say that my family is complete, I do not want to give birth, and am ready to let my embryo's go, we are faced with this. It's just not fair in so, so many ways.

4 comments:

Kimberley said...

I'm sorry...I can only imagine the struggle. The worries if you don't take them in - that they are safe and loved and cared for as you would.

Do you know if they would be available for adoption? Or is it a given?

Courtney and Jason said...

There are just not enough words to say to you about this. I am terribly sorry that you and your family are being put through this. My heart goes out to you and your family *hugs*

Lolliemama said...

Oh my god. I am speechless. I am so sorry that you guys are in this position. Call me if you ever want to talk or just rant.

Queen of pink in a house of blue said...

oh my! I'm so sorry you have this to deal with. you will make the right descion for your family and these babies will find the home were they belong!

Will the sister be able to keep the baby if she wanted to, or will it go into foster care?

big hugs going out to your family!